12 Signs He's Not In Love With You — He's Obsessed

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He knows things about you that you've never told him.

Privacy invasion, red flag! Knowing your whereabouts without your consent indicates an obsessive relationship, lacking healthy boundaries. Seek support and establish mutual respect.

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He tries to intimidate other guys to keep them away from you.

Jealousy revealed: Scared-off guys or sudden disappearances may signal controlling behavior. Watch for warning signs in relationships.

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He tries to intimidate other guys to keep them away from you.

Jealousy revealed: Scared-off guys or sudden disappearances may signal controlling behavior. Watch for warning signs in relationships.

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Unwanted presence: Stalking behavior raises red flags in relationships.

Unhealthy obsession: Stalking behavior violates boundaries, showing an unhealthy obsession that is far from cute or acceptable in any relationship.

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He doesn’t seem capable of taking no for an answer.

Persistent disinterest ignored: If he doesn't respect your repeated rejection and continues to pursue you, he may be a jerk or even obsessed with you.

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He tries to make it impossible for you to leave him.

Dangerous obsession: If considering a restraining order but fearful of his reaction, seek support from others. Your safety is paramount.

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People you know regularly call him "your stalker."

No joke: Concerning message reveals his obvious obsessive behavior. Take it seriously and address the issue promptly. Your safety is important.

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He seems to know you, but you don’t really know him.

Healthy love: Sharing interests, work, and hangout spots fosters mutual understanding in a relationship.

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He showers you with attention even when you ask him not to.

Persistent despite rejection: Daily love notes, constant calls, monopolizing your time. Boundaries are crucial in a healthy relationship.

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You get the feeling that he’s in love with the idea of you rather than the real you.

Manic Pixie Dream Girl fantasy: Beware of obsession rather than genuine love. Embrace authenticity in relationships.

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He’s irrationally jealous.

Explosive reactions to interactions with other guys may indicate unhealthy obsession and possessiveness. Watch out for red flags.

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He's actually quite delusional.

His thoughts often seem nonsensical or distorted, reflecting a warped perspective. Beware of his strange and illogical reasoning.

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